I met Cindy Adams at Wells Fargo Bank on East 18th at #rd ave near Lake Merit, Oakland just around the corner from where I lived. on First avenue. 1976
I was Working for Mosler Hermmann safe at the time.So Wels Fargo was a customer.
I flirted with her lightly she was tall and beautiful she looked Asian but with a darker complexion.
I asked her out,
We dated .
I remembered her asking what I thought her ethnic background was. I guesses Latina or Asian. She smiled and said "no I'm Chippewa"
I remember visitng her apartment and meeting her brother , He seemed normal nice but very large.
(note for later Terry White Lawrence lab also Chippewa)
We were getting along and enjoying each others company, I was apparently feeling like being a couple my attitude was " ready for somethign serious"
"Cindy Adams" keeps coming back from my memory. Chippewa woman who I knew jus before Donna. in fact I met Donna at Cindy's birthday party. Cindy was tall beautiful and smart. but definitely liked to party.
At her birthday paarty I understood that she and me were couple. but She hardly talked to me and wa dancing with all the other guys. I thought" Fine Cindy , looked arond and lo and behold i started dancing with Donna.
So we broke up and Donna and me were together for a couple years .
Every few years I would see Cindy casually as Friends. I tried to talk to her and counsel her and point her to positive directions.
Several years later Cindy was living in a crppy little place in the Ghetto. she came to my house and confessedhow she always loved me and was so sorry .. But I had heard so many of her sad stories and watched her deterioriate. (Drugs and Alcohol) she was not so beautiful anymor and smelled bad.
I was younger and more hot headed. I said If you Loved me why did you act the way you did? Just so sad to see Beautiful people with such potential flush themselveds down th drain. Cindy scould well have become a very successful Acountant or book keeper. Had she ben able to be faithful and true she coudl have actually supported a relationship.
I have to say that for some reason when I read your posts I hear echoes of Cindy. Cindy's path led to homelesseness and oblivion loss of he kids and her dignity. The opposite of the "path with heart". What path are you on? Spirits from beyond and those on this plane are asking you the same question.
Dorothy you have always had the power to go home , just click your heels together and say "There is no place like home" 
